Sunday, December 11, 2011

Introducing my new baby!

HAPPIEST HEALTHY Holiday Wishes to you, my friends! 

I am so excited to announce the birth of my new baby, the ezine "Radiant YOU!".  This will be your go-to source of healthy education, inspiration and delicious nutritious FUN!  

Its coming January 2012, and I wanted to share it with my nearest and dearest first.   Want to join me in this fabulous endeavor?  Sign up by clicking HERE.

As a thank you for signing up, the first 500 subscribers will receive The Top Five Tips to LOSE THE WINTER BLOAT & Lose 5 lbs in 7 days!

January's first issue will explore New Years Traditions, and why resolutions can HURT more than HELP you!  Later in the month, look for tips to CLEANSE and RENEW in the New Year, with a special invitation to join my first group cleanse of 2012.

Its easy to subscribe, and best of all, its F.R.E.E.!.  Just click on this link to get the Radiant YOU ezine and your Top 5 Tips!

Have the most wonderful of holiday seasons, 

Kelly Scotti
Founder and Director, Flying Dragon Wellness
Creator of the RADIANT YOU Platinum Program

Lose the weight, the drama, and the stress and UNCOVER your BRILLIANT and SEXY Self!


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Wednesday, July 27, 2011

GETTING CLEAR AND GETTING THERE

AUGUST 2011 Intentions

If you are like me, you are interested in a million things, and cant wait to find out more about all of them. You spend hours surfing the net and taking it all in, and then you wonder why you feel overwhelmed, undermotivated, and basically, a little off kilter. Yes, its great that I have so many interests, and want to explore the world at large, that related to my family, my interests, my business, my body, my spirit, and so much more. I wonder, though, does the way I explore these things really limit me from getting the most out of that which most interests me at the moment (which changes daily it seems)?

I process information and read very quickly. I superficially (ie one the surface) soak in that which appeals to me, making a mental note to go back and research that a little more in the future…I set bookmarks on my computer, I buy books like they are going out of style (and sadly, the paper ones are)….and when I look back a day, week, month later, I find that I never really look at those books, the computer bookmarks, the articles I save to read. I just keep floating around. Sometimes, I end up back where I started, which is fun. And sometimes, I look back in my files for things I did in my business years ago, that I realize are relevant now, and could really help promote my business now-but I forgot all about them!
Again, no judgement here. I really want to start to pay attention though, start to focus on things that will help me become a better nutrition coach, a better yoga instructor, a better yogini, a better wife and mother. Not because where I am in a bad place, or am not good at what I do, but because I want to change lives. I want to make a difference, and to do that, I feel its important to always reach further than you feel comfortable doing, to learn more, to expand. So I need start to pare down and really get deep with what grabs me, and then after Ive absorbed what appeals, move on to the next thing. Instead of having a 100 balls in the air all at once, which inevitably leads to 95 of those being dropped, I could have one to two things and really make those balls fly!
So how to focus? How to get clear? For me, I need a system. I need a schedule. I need a clear work space. And I need a way to check and see how I am doing, and see if I ready to move on.
My intention for the month of the August, is to set a schedule for my surfing. To make a filing system for my interests, and then to document them, do a brain dump, so that when I am ready to explore them, they are at my fingertips, documented, instead of rolling around in my head. I am going to limit my extraneous inputs, such as bravo tv, for example (real housewives, anyone?). I am going to write down the systems that I use to process and find information-nutrition, yoga, childrearing, etc, so that I may be able to help others limit the time they spend with the same searches. Take this thing that comes so easily to me and share it with others (maybe as a signature system for my health coaching practice, perhaps?).
I have wanted to read a number of books in my library and actually document a review of these books on good reads or amazon, somewhere that will increase my presence on the web, adding some expert status to my business (at least if my reviews are informative, in depth, relevant, and concise, fingers crossed!). Recent favorites have included the Four Hour Body, and Fierce Medicine.

I also intend to make time to cook the amazing foods I get from the CSA I belong too, instead of letting them rot in the frig for a week and then trying to make them tasty. And that will allow me to explore new recipes for veggies I've never had or enjoyed the past-lets try them again. And my family will reap the benefits of eating whole foods cooked with love, instead of odious processed bagged foods that we tend to go to when we only have a few minutes to get the kids fed. Lets make time for dinner around the table, shall we!!!!

I intend to teach at least two childrens yoga classes this month, 2-5 yrs old and 6-10- so that I can get my certificate for child light yoga. And of course, continue my weekly adult class at the country club.
I intend to get back into a daily meditation practice, whether that be moving meditation (dancing), seated meditation, or yoga nidra.

What do I need in order to meet my goals for August?

 Dedicated workspace (office)

 Clear workspace-no clutter or mess so I can really focus on what I want to focus on

 Calendar-schedule

o Need to make sure it includes what books I want to review and when, with a clear idea of how long it will take, without pressure to get this done, so I make it really easy for me to meet my goal

 Priorities exercise-whats important to me now, what do I want to focus on

o Also need to document what I have found in the past that tends to throw me off course and try to come up with idea for course correction

 Schedule time in every day for : dance (fun), exercise, tv, reading, cooking, meditation, brain dump (document everything I want to explore, that I found when surfing, etc) , surfing/email-and stick to that schedule

 Once per week, day off, no schedule

 Family meals-scheduled (since my hubby and I are like ships passing in the night)

 Vitamins-daily

I have a number of tools in arsenal to make my goals for this month a reality. I will start to dust them off and see which ones I really identify with at this stage of my lifecycle. Most importantly, I think the meditation is going to rock in this process. But I need to start on the clearing first, and make a commitment to keep things clear, take time to put things in their place, in order to keep this train on its tracks.

What about you? What do you want to happen for you in August? Share your intentions here!

Monday, July 4, 2011

She who cannot be contained...

She Who Cannot Be Contained
By Lisa Schrader


In celebration of her Too Muchness.

Big hipped, loose lipped, sassy swagger, fierce hearted, emotional roller ocean all over, wanting more more more...
She Must Move,
gypsy girl spirit undulating snake rhythms hypnotizing,
slipping through your fingers, rattle you awake,
soul whisper wise woman running with the wolves
and lurking in the corners of your dreams
Women are Wet: joy teary, heart weary with weeping, blood mooning,
milk letting down, down, down
on pink petals, sweet nectar glistening
Giving, tending, mending, gathering the seeds,
sowing the cycles of blue sky, green harvest, fire burn and dawning dew.
She calls: worship me, open me, love me,
be warrior enough to penetrate my tender trust with your presence,
unleash the blinding magnificence of this she-beauty,
the jewels in the temple are yours...
Or don’t.
You’ll find me here the same
and ever changing,
luxuriating on the rose petal bed,
dipping my fingers in honey,
sipping wine song, and
dancing in the sacred, throbbing heart of Yes

Monday, June 27, 2011

Thursday, June 23, 2011

The Pleasure Principle

I was lucky enough to attend the Weight Loss Pleasure Camp held at Omega Institute in Rhinebeck, NY this month.  During the 5 day retreat, we learned all about how to give ourselves permission to feel pleasure, to explore it, to feel worthy of it, and to let it permeate all aspects of our lives.  As a result, Im breathing more, tuning into my body more, slowing down, asking my animal (my gorgeous body) what she wants and likes, and listening....

Today I went for an hour long walk (not run, walk) in the humidity listening to some great tunes, and singing at the top of my lungs when I felt like it, dancing a little, and overall, really enjoying myself.  My body did run a few times during the course of the four mile jaunt, because she wanted to, but this was not about working out or training for a race (which is so different than normal).  It was about experiencing the pleasure of movement, the feel of sweat on my skin, the joy that good music brings to me, and basking in the heat of the sun.  What a lovely experience.  And you know, every experience can be like that.  If you allow yourself to pay attention, feel it, glory in it, love it. 

Lunch followed my lovely walk: a salad with tomatoes, yellow peppers, hemp seed, and the best dressing EVER (rosemary balsamic).  I enjoyed every bite, I paid attention to every bite, I did nothing else but enjoy that salad, and the veggie soup I made from the CSA veggies I got last week.  It was divine.

Make everything you 'have to do' something you 'get to do' and experience the difference that makes in your life.  Pay attention.  Dont worry about calories, think only of your pleasure.  If you really pay attention to what your body craves, you'll find it wont be sugar all the time.  It might be some alone time, a hot bath, a cup of tea, a hug from a friend, a dance around the living room.   And when you experience pleasure in everything you do and everything you are, are you really going to care about what the scale says (the answer is no, in case you're vascillating :)

Here's to your pleasure...

 

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Long time no write

Hi fellow amazing beautiful women (and men if any of you are reading, you're so handsome!  Yes, really you are!),

I am trying to recover from my foray into the world of HCG.  I say this with the utmost respect for the diet. Yes, it definitely does work in the short term.  But in the long term, it caused me to rebound and become obsessed with food, body image (well I guess thats been around for a while), and spiraling me into the world of compulsive overeating and further numbness.

If you follow my blog, you will see that I started the downfall around Oct 2010.  I was so scared of my success, getting down to 133 (it was either fear or self sabotage), that I let it all hang loose during Halloween and the following holidays.  Weight came on quickly, and I did nothing to stop it. I started another round of HCG this year, and again, let myself become victim to the craziness that came up in my head from lack of nutrients and feelings of failure.  From Oct to Feb, I gained back 20 lbs, and Im just above that right now, after losing 10 lbs on the last round and regaining that plus a few.

Its been a rough ride.  I have done lots of reading on the subject, and have found that for some people (like me)!, initially this type of diet is really good, but start to not weigh yourself daily (which was causing me to binge since I didn't like what the scale said), and allow yourself the devil sugar and you gain back like crazy-the rebound is swift and vicious.  

And just to let you know, that gain occurred when I was working out at least one hour a day, doing yoga, running, swimming, circuit training, and biking.  So I was not Mrs. Inactive.

I spiraled back into the pits of a depression that plagued me in my early 20's, and considered going back on antidepressants, until I remembered that they caused me to be anxious, and then I had to take an antianxiety med, and so on and so on.

I recently read the Diet Cure by Julia Ross, and she advocates a variety of supplements depending on specific conditions (low serotonin, low adrenal function, and ex dieter for me), and Ive been taking them for the past two days.  I really don't like taking supplements, but I wanted to get out of this crazy headspace Ive been occupying for the last few months, and really get back to feeling like myself, and do it without rx pharmaceuticals, so I figured Id give it a tty.

Even though its only been 24 hrs, I feel better, much better.  I looked in the mirror this morning and congratulate myself on going for a run two days in a row, even though my average pace is way high thanks to the heat and extra pounds- I even thought I looked pretty good.  Im motivated to eat well, and haven't been tempted by sweets.  Im hoping this continues and its not just the TOM affect.

Any of you out there having the same issues?  I definitely do not think Ill be doing HCG anytime again.  Unless perhaps I can eat a regular diet with it and then take it for its feel good affect (and still lose?).  Anyone try that?

Hope everyone out there is doing well.  Im going to start posting my food mood logs, if I find some time.    Til then, happy times to you.

Monday, March 28, 2011

R4P2D12-VLCD D10

Today's weight: 146.2

After eating to my hearts content at the party Sat night (bordering on more than a little compulsive) and gaining 2 lbs, I lost 2.6lbs this morning thanks to a P2 steak day (my creation?), which basically is 8oz of steak with a huge tomato, which I ate at 4:30pm (yes, I was hungry before and after!).  But then I went and cheated again today, for no real reason other than I wanted some cookies, and then I said, ok what about diet soda and some pizza, yum!  So now Im hopped up on caffeine, my stomach is bloated, and Im a little disappointed in myself.  But Im wondering if I do another steak day tomorrow, what will Wed bring?  Its an experiment. I am going into these cheats knowing full well that they might derail all progress and that I may need to 1)add more days to my round or 2) give up early and be happy with where I am and get back to working out (which i kinda miss).  Either way, there are things in my life that Im really excited about, and that have my focus more than this diet.   Master bath renovations started today, and I just got some blinging lighting that I will need to put together (yes, every crystal will need to be attached, but I got it for a steal!).


The bath is going to be zen meets nature, with pebble shower floor, iridiscent glass brick mosaic shower tile, a new vanity and a linen cabinet (yay storage!) and a bath with chromatherapy and champagne bubbles that I got as a showroom floor model (actually was able to see it working) and was able to save 5K on!   The shower will have a overhead rain showerhead and then a handheld showerhead that can function both as a showerhead or as a body spray.

In addition to that excitement (over the top, though the having to go upstairs to use the bathroom at night is a little challenging), the kids are doing great, getting big and fiestier by the day, hubby and I are doing great, and yesterday I was able to take a yoga class with Seane Corne (awesome!).  Im so very blessed.

How are you guys?

ps-dont do as I do with the cheating.  Im the poster child for not setting a good example right now.  Ill be back on track tomorrow!

pss-Lis, tell me about cycling.  Maybe that would stop my little binges during P2!